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(LAWSON, Mo.) — Shawna Steeves’ 8-year-old daughter, Meghan, will get a dance of her own after the single mom said local PTO officials stood firm on a ruling that she could not be her daughter’s date at a father-daughter dance.

According to Steeves, the president of the PTO said the group would stick to a “no moms allowed” policy for the Feb. 6 dance at Southwest Elementary School in Lawson, Missouri.

“One option they gave was that they [the PTO] would find a male substitute to take her, which was out of the question,” Steeves said. “She told me that she didn’t want to make kids feel like outcasts. But where did my daughter fit in all of this? They didn’t even offer me a chaperone position.”

Steeves told ABC News that she initially thought she could go to the dance after the school principal gave her the OK to accompany her daughter.

“She was really excited,” Steeves said. “She said, ‘Mommy, I want you to take me.’ I thought, ‘OK, cool,’ but the flyer said, ‘No moms allowed,’ and her dad is not in her life.”

“One week later, we bought a dress,” Steeves added. “The next morning, I got a call from the principal, who told me that I wasn’t allowed to attend because of the PTO [Parent Teacher Organization].”

The principal of Southwest Elementary School referred calls to the district superintendent, Roger Schmitz, who said the decision on who could attend the father-daughter dance rested with the PTO because it was running the event.

A community service organization saw coverage of Steeves’ dispute with the school and offered to organize a separate dance.

“It’s open to all the students and they can bring any adult role model they wish,” said Antonio DeLaCruz, a member of Missouri Widows Sons Masonic Riders Association and organizer of “Meghan’s Dance.”

“Of course, she’s the driving force,” DeLaCruz added, “but there’s other kids in her situation that want to attend school functions like the father-daughter dance and they can’t.”

PTO president Kacey Collier did not respond to ABC News’ requests for comment.

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